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Harassed for saying I was born a woman...And falsely portrayed as a transphobe (I'm not)!

Elektra

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This video is of me speaking up about an ordeal on TikTok today.

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This is the gist of it.

 

Since then a bit has happened. I am being FALSELY painted as transphobic by "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok " and "billynomates.1988 of TikTok". While neither has specifically said I am transphobic, they've both heavily implied it with their actions, the very way they twist words, and show only bits and pieces they can easily twist into looking like something else.

 

To add to it, this person named "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" has taken it upon themselves to harass me. Also to post Tiktoks painting themselves as some victim while painting me as some horrible anti-trans person. There's a list of TikTok's this person made about me. They attempted to make it seem as if blocking them made me anti trans. 

https://archive.is/igrHt

I blocked "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" because of how crude they were towards me. Not all of which was visible.

 

There's 2 things I want to point out specifically right now.

 

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Essentially these folks are trying to portray me as "not a trans ally" because I blocked them. They got blocked for harassment and being a large part of why I kept receiving violent threats in private messages on TikTok.

 

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And there is "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" saying I am a transphobe without saying I am a transphobe. It's heavily implied with "They wernt ally's"

 

 

I've spent the last few hours blocking people that have been  harassing me in private messages on TikTok. For some reason the option to change my private messages settings aren't showing up. Last time this happened, it resolved when I updated the app and waited. FINALLY I was able to change certain settings for better protection. Only those I follow back can message me now.

 

I have tried to explain myself to a few of these folks. Early on I've tried explaining I never said "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" said I was transphobic. But that was met with hostility in the form of massive amounts of "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok's" followers harassing me in private messages. I've been repeatedly harassed in comments to various videos of mine.  The video above pretty much covers all I got to say.

 

I've tried explaining that I was referring to myself factually when I said I was a natural born woman. I've tried explaining when in close proximity of a transgender person I will say "cisgender". But not one of these people gave me a chance. Instead some of them chose to make Tiktoks attempting to make me out to be some ignorant piece of garbage as they tried to call it educating. They weren't trying to "educate" me in the least. If they were, they wouldn't have put so much effort into harassing me and having me harassed. What kind of people spend most of their day getting their social media followers to attack someone? Then playing victim and trying to convince 3 people privately that if I apologize, it will stop. Those who truly know me know that wen I am wrong, I will admit it and apologize. I will NEVER apologize just to get others to leave me alone or stop bullying me. To do so would be a great disrespect to myself. Them expecting me to apologize to get their attacks to stop is very demeaning.

 

If "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" and "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" were truly trying to educate me, they wouldn't have resorted having me harassed. All they proved today was how awful they are. I have nothing to apologize for. All I did was state that I was born a woman. "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" got a large number of their followers to harass me. "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" tried to get me harassed by trying to paint me as some PR person trying to help Patricia Silva and by trying to make it seem like me blocking them meant I am not a trans ally.

 

The last I'll say in this blog is this.

It doesn't matter what "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" and "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" think or say about me. I know who and what I am. I am a good person. One that will always speak in favor of trans rights. One that will always speak up for herself. One that will always speak up and have a friend's back.

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CEDAvsFan

Those two have no class. They are horrible bullies who resort to having others harass those who stand up to them. They are also tone-deaf and racist; the way they talked to me definitely gave off a "know your place, boy" vibe. They need to learn to be better people, but I doubt they will.

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Gwen

Nonbinarydad and Billy don't represent the LGBT community. They have a voice in the community, but they do not represent it. If they did, they'd be terrible representatives for how they abused you yesterday. What they did was so deplorable; so disgusting! All they cared about was demeaning you and trying to bully you to apologize just for being born a woman. I was born male. I am proud to have been born male, only to eventually become my true self. It's helped me to be more accepting of others.

 

I know you're a trans allly. You're one of the best I know. You helped my parents to understand and begin on the road of accepting me.

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Yas

OMFG! You can't be serious. You weren't bothering trans people. You saying what you were born as isn't that. You weren't in anyone's face using it to attack or troll. 

 

Billy and Bowzer need to grow up and get a hobby.

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Maira

I'm very familiar with dhbowzeryournonbinarydad and billynomates.1988. They have a history of this behavior. Their MO is play the victim role, attack, and continue to play the victim. 

 

Those 2 expecting you to apologize as if you victimized them is laughable. You're not their first victim. 

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Angie

billynomates.1988 did another Tiktok about you. It's no surprise he's trying to make you appear transphobic. You blocking him and speaking about what he and DB put you through doesn't make you transphobic. It makes you brave for standing up to bullies.

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Angie
54 minutes ago, Maira said:

I'm very familiar with dhbowzeryournonbinarydad and billynomates.1988. They have a history of this behavior. Their MO is play the victim role, attack, and continue to play the victim. 

 

Those 2 expecting you to apologize as if you victimized them is laughable. You're not their first victim. 

She shouldn't apologize to these 2. She did nothing to apologize for.

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Amber Mera
6 hours ago, Gwen said:

Nonbinarydad and Billy don't represent the LGBT community. They have a voice in the community, but they do not represent it. If they did, they'd be terrible representatives for how they abused you yesterday. What they did was so deplorable; so disgusting! All they cared about was demeaning you and trying to bully you to apologize just for being born a woman. I was born male. I am proud to have been born male, only to eventually become my true self. It's helped me to be more accepting of others.

 

I know you're a trans allly. You're one of the best I know. You helped my parents to understand and begin on the road of accepting me.

Those 2 are the ones that need to do better. Be better.

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Luis Virgil

Don't you f**king dare think about apologizing to that f**king sh*tstain Dhbowzer or their lackey Billy. You didn't do sh*t to them. You said nothing wrong. You were referring to yourself when you said you were a natural born woman. Were you talking to a trans woman or trans man or anyone LGBTQIA? No you weren't. I've heard you use the term cisgender before. You also have referred to yourself as a woman before. That f**king narcissistic b*st**d just seems to f**king hate cisgender women.

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Luis Virgil
14 hours ago, Angie said:

She shouldn't apologize to these 2. She did nothing to apologize for.

Apologizing to bullies to get them to stop is a f**king dis on all of their victims. 

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Angie
1 hour ago, Luis Virgil said:

Apologizing to bullies to get them to stop is a f**king dis on all of their victims. 

I agree and it only empowers them.

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Erich W

Dhbowzer and his friend billynomates.1988 act like they were raised by wild animals.  

 

I've seen billynomates.1988's TikToks. He's as real as the million dollar bill with Trump's picture. He says he is about educating "@GMileyCollier78", but the way he talks, it's as if he expects his followers to pity him as if he was some victim.

 

I've seen his comments on dhbowzeryournonbinarydad's Tiktoks. His f**king comments fanned many flames. I believe that little sh*t is a huge reason why many of his followers went after you and @CEDAvsFan. I almost had hope for this little sh*t, but he won't stop deflecting. He won't stop finding reasons to try and make you out to be some transphobe. 

 

Billy will always somehow make it seem like he's the damn victim. He isn't. 

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Simian Pathetica
On 3/24/2024 at 1:39 AM, Angie said:

I agree and it only empowers them.

Apologizing to a bully is for idiots. 

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Simian Pathetica
On 3/23/2024 at 9:01 AM, Maira said:

I'm very familiar with dhbowzeryournonbinarydad and billynomates.1988. They have a history of this behavior. Their MO is play the victim role, attack, and continue to play the victim. 

 

Those 2 expecting you to apologize as if you victimized them is laughable. You're not their first victim. 

How many victims are there?

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Angie
On 3/24/2024 at 8:35 PM, Erich W said:

Dhbowzer and his friend billynomates.1988 act like they were raised by wild animals.  

 

I've seen billynomates.1988's TikToks. He's as real as the million dollar bill with Trump's picture. He says he is about educating "@GMileyCollier78", but the way he talks, it's as if he expects his followers to pity him as if he was some victim.

 

I've seen his comments on dhbowzeryournonbinarydad's Tiktoks. His f**king comments fanned many flames. I believe that little sh*t is a huge reason why many of his followers went after you and @CEDAvsFan. I almost had hope for this little sh*t, but he won't stop deflecting. He won't stop finding reasons to try and make you out to be some transphobe. 

 

Billy will always somehow make it seem like he's the damn victim. He isn't. 

Billy is as bad as Dhbowzer.

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Shelley Awesome
On 3/23/2024 at 6:04 AM, CEDAvsFan said:

Those two have no class. They are horrible bullies who resort to having others harass those who stand up to them. They are also tone-deaf and racist; the way they talked to me definitely gave off a "know your place, boy" vibe. They need to learn to be better people, but I doubt they will.

Watch The Rookie. Get to know a character by the name of Smitty. The likelihood of Dhbowzer and Billy becoming decent people are about the same as Smitty one day taking Sgt Grey's job. 

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Tamara
On 3/23/2024 at 6:04 AM, CEDAvsFan said:

Those two have no class. They are horrible bullies who resort to having others harass those who stand up to them. They are also tone-deaf and racist; the way they talked to me definitely gave off a "know your place, boy" vibe. They need to learn to be better people, but I doubt they will.

Billy and Bowzer could use some serious therapy.

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Mandy Baby

You didn't deserve what these animals did to you. They're terrible people and they don't represent the trans community. 

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Erich W
On 3/26/2024 at 4:34 PM, Angie said:

Billy is as bad as Dhbowzer.

He is. Worse actually. He's still making videos on sh*tTok about @GMileyCollier78. He doesn't mention her name though. So when people ask who he speaks of, he won't seem obsessed.

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Erich W
On 3/30/2024 at 2:34 PM, Mandy Baby said:

You didn't deserve what these animals did to you. They're terrible people and they don't represent the trans community. 

People like them hurt the trans community.

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