While I was on my "Hannahmontana" character on the Asura server in Final Fantasy XI recently, I was kicked from the "DapperDisciples" linkshell after I said "Good Morning! (Good Afternoon) Good Evening!". The reason? Apparently those who commit acts of sexual harassment are welcomed/favored. The gist of it, along with proof of sexual harassment, is in the video below.

To get caught up, watch the video below.

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Now that you're all caught up and informed...

The video above only shows a small portion of the sexual harassment from Durodematar. At first I thought he was just a lonely guy and that if I changed the subject, I could be a friend to him and maybe it would stop. Sometimes in cases like this, that happens. Not always, but it can. I thought I would give it a chance.

During some of the times changing the subject didn't help, he'd accuse me of being the person that played Hannahmontana on Asura before me. That person was a 15 year old girl. Sometimes he would accuse me of being others I wasn't. Several times he would bring up a character named Navie. One of the times he said Navie was playing and he would ask him. I highly doubt it since Navie has had no auction house activity since March of 2024.

[Navie (Asura) Auction House activity]

At times Durodematar behaved/acted strangely. I kept telling myself he was lonely, he wanted attention, he just needed a friend.

I was going to continue trying to be his friend and just changing the subject if he got sexual, but apparently he got upset I had repeatedly showed no interest in cyber sex with him.

So now the linkshell leader of the "DapperDisciples" linkshell (Zebben) has kicked me and I'm no longer welcome. This disappoints me alot because I thought Zebben was a cool person. But what does it say about him to keep (and welcome) my sexual harasser around, but get rid of me (the victim)? That speaks volumes...

UPDATE!

(Edit: 7:01am ET on 9/26/2024)

Screenshot with threats from Durodematar of the Asura server in Final Fantasy 11.

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ARCHIVED: https://archive.is/uo3pY

Addressing the above harassment from Durodematar of the Asura server in Final Fantasy XI.

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1) "captainvg313" and "littlepuss12212011" do not exist on Instagram. No solid proof that they ever did other than the images Durodematar sent me. I firmly believe them to be photoshopped. Pictures taken from my Facebook and photoshopped to look like they were on non-existent Instagram accounts. My Facebook is now 100% private.

2) "but your attitude always reveals you". Now I know he is acting this way because he is butthurt I've refused to cybersex with him and the one time he ask me for pics of my private areas, I said no.

3) "melanie sent me your Instagram of your cats and it says captainvg313, it's no Photoshop you've been exposed". Um yes it is. Pics wer taken from my Facebook and photoshopped to look like they were on accounts I never used on Instagram.

4) "Even though you closed your account on August 30th, she recorded everything and you were exposed,". I tried to look up the Instagram accounts that Durodematar tried to say were mine. They don't exist and I got the typical page doesn't exist errors. No indication showe as to if those accounts existed or when they closed if they ever existed. So why pull that date just out at random? My guess is he was hoping I would say something he could use in order to twist the truth.

5) "Later she will do a stream exposing you as captainvg313". Now this is a threat. But Durodematar doesn't scare me. I've been through worse and I'm still alive and kickin'.

6) The difference in what Durodematar is threatening and what I am doing here is this. I am defending myself and proving myself. That which is my right. What Durodematar is making threats because he is mad, angry, and butthurt. He's butthurt because I've turned him down multiple times when he kept asking for cybersex.

7) If Durodematar contacts me again in any way shape or form... or anyone does on his behalf, it will get documented.

8) I can't help but wonder how many other girls Durodematar has done this to besides me and that 15 year old girl that played Hannahmontana on Asura before I did.

9) Before August 28, 2024, Hannahmontana on Asura was not me.

That about covers it.